Build Confidence with a “Try Something New” Challenge
Confidence doesn’t happen overnight — it grows every time kids face something unfamiliar, try their best, and take pride in their effort. One of the simplest (and most fun!) ways to nurture this skill at home is through a “Try Something New” Challenge.
This activity provides kids with a safe space to step outside their comfort zone, supported by their biggest cheerleaders —> you. Whether it’s tasting a new food, learning a skill, or sharing their voice in a new way, these little moments build the foundation for big confidence later in life.
What You’ll Need:
- A piece of poster board or a large sheet of paper
- Markers or crayons
- Stickers or stamps (optional, but fun!)
- A spirit of adventure
Step 1: Brainstorm Together
Sit down with your child and make a list of new things they could try this week. Keep it simple, playful, and age-appropriate. Here are some ideas to get you started:
- Taste a food they’ve never tried before
- Share a story during family dinner
- Learn a new word and use it in a sentence
- Try a new playground activity or sport
- Start a small creative project (drawing, crafting, building)
👉 The goal isn’t perfection — it’s trying something new with courage.
Step 2: Create the “Confidence Chart”
Draw a simple chart or list on your poster board with spaces to write each new challenge. Let your child decorate it with their favorite colors or characters (maybe Rachel Rye or Samantha Sourdough 😉).
Every time they complete a challenge, place a sticker or stamp on the chart. This visual reminder builds motivation and shows them just how much they’re accomplishing.
Step 3: Celebrate the Wins
After each challenge, take a moment to talk with your child about how it felt to try something new. Ask:
- “What part felt exciting?”
- “What part felt a little scary?”
- “How do you feel now that you did it?”
This reflection helps them connect effort with growth, which is key to developing real confidence.
👉 Pro tip: Celebrate effort more than outcome. “I love how brave you were to try that!” is more powerful than “You did it perfectly.”
Step 4: Add a Special Parent–Child Challenge
To make it extra fun, add a challenge you’ll both try together — like baking a new recipe, doing a puzzle, or learning a simple dance. When kids see you try new things (and maybe even make a few mistakes), it teaches them that confidence is about showing up, not being flawless.
Step 5: Make It a Weekly Tradition
Confidence grows with practice. Pick one new activity each week and watch your child’s courage blossom over time. You can even take photos of each challenge and create a “Confidence Scrapbook” at the end of the season.
Why This Works
The “Try Something New” Challenge helps kids:
- Practice facing small fears in a safe environment.
- Experience the joy of growth through effort.
- Build resilience and flexibility for future challenges.
- Strengthen their bond with you through shared experiences.
Bonus Resource: My Crumby Guide to Baking and Friendship Making
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