The “Crisis of Connection” and Why Kids Need Us More Than Ever
A look at why we need to connect with our kids now more than ever.
Author and journalist David Brooks has said, “We are experiencing what’s being called a ‘Crisis of Connection,’ and it is only getting worse.” In a world where we are more digitally connected than ever, many families are quietly becoming emotionally disconnected. Kids, in particular, are feeling the weight of this disconnection — and it’s affecting their confidence, mental health, and relationships in lasting ways.
This “Crisis of Connection” shows up in subtle but powerful ways: kids spending more time online than with family, feeling isolated at school, or struggling to express their emotions. The solution isn’t complicated — but it does require intention. We must create consistent opportunities for real, meaningful connection with our children.
🧡 Why Connection Matters
When kids feel connected, they are:
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More likely to talk about their day, feelings, and challenges
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Better able to regulate emotions and develop empathy
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More confident socially and academically
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Less likely to withdraw or turn exclusively to digital spaces for comfort
Connection is the foundation for resilience, self-worth, and healthy relationships.
🥖 How to Start Reconnecting — One Moment at a Time
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Bake together. Activities like making bread or play dough give kids time to talk while their hands are busy.
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Share stories. Whether at the dinner table or during bedtime, storytelling builds trust and belonging.
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Be fully present. Put away distractions and give them your undivided attention — even for 10 minutes.
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Create rituals. Weekly “Tuesday’s Tea” or “Wednesday’s Wisdom” moments give kids something to look forward to.
At My Crumby World, we build these moments into every story, baking activity, and product because connection doesn’t just happen — it’s made intentionally.
🌟 Final Thought
This “Crisis of Connection” is real — but it’s not irreversible. By slowing down, showing up, and engaging with our kids in meaningful ways, we can give them the sense of belonging and security they need most. These moments are more than just memories — they are the foundation of who they will become.
