Help children recognize and understand their invisible strengths, such as kindness, patience, creativity, and problem-solving skills.
If you work with children at home, in clubs, or at school, this activity is excellent for helping them recognize their unique strengths that others may overlook.
Materials:
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A large mirror or a handheld mirror
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Paper and crayons/markers
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A small box or jar
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Slips of paper
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Stickers or stamps
- Scissors
Lesson Duration: 45 minutes
Introduction (10 minutes)
Discussion:
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Gather the children in a circle.
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Explain that everyone has special strengths that are not always visible on the outside.
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Ask the children if they know what “invisible strengths” might be. Provide examples like kindness, patience, creativity, bravery, and being a good friend.
Activity 1: Mirror, Mirror (10 minutes)
Exercise:
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Show the children the mirror.
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One by one, have each child look in the mirror and describe things about themselves that cannot be seen there. If a child struggles, gently guide them with examples or ask their peers to help identify a strength.
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After each child shares, give them a sticker or stamp to celebrate their strength.
Discussion:
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Discuss how these strengths make each person special and how they can use these strengths in everyday life.
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Ask questions like, “How can you show kindness at school?” or “When have you used your creativity to solve a problem?”
Activity 2: Strength Stars (15 minutes)
Exercise:
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Give each child a piece of paper and crayons/markers.
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Ask them to draw a big star on the paper, and have them cut out the star.
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Inside the star, have them draw pictures of what represents their invisible strengths. If they have trouble, they can write it out. They can also decorate the star with colors and stickers.
Sharing:
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Once the stars are completed, have each child share their star with the group.
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Encourage positive feedback from peers, highlighting each child’s unique strengths.
Activity 3: Strength Jar (10 minutes)
Exercise:
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Place a small box or jar in the center of the group.
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Hand out slips of paper and pens or crayons.
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Ask the children to write or draw one strength they see in each of their classmates. Assist younger children as needed.
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Collect the slips and put them into the jar.
Sharing:
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Draw slips from the jar and read them aloud.
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Celebrate each child’s strengths by giving them a “strength certificate” or a small token of recognition.
Conclusion and Reflection (5 minutes)
Discussion:
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Recap the lesson by emphasizing how everyone has invisible strengths that make them unique.
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Encourage the children to think about their strengths every day and use them to help others and themselves.
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End with a group affirmation, such as, “I am strong in many ways, and I will use my strengths to be my best self.”
Take-Home Activity:
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Give each child a blank “Strength Journal” where they can continue to write or draw about their invisible strengths and how they use them in daily life.
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Encourage them to share their journal entries with their family or friends to reinforce the lesson.
This lesson helps children recognize and appreciate their invisible strengths, boosting their self-esteem and encouraging them to apply these strengths positively in different situations.