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As parents, we often focus on protecting our daughters from harm, but what happens when our child may be the one exhibiting hurtful behavior?

It’s a tough question. And an important one.

In this first post of our 7-part series on recognizing and addressing bullying behaviors, we’re focusing on a subtle but powerful early sign: controlling or dominating others.

What Does Controlling Behavior Look Like?

Sometimes it doesn’t look like “bullying” at all.

It can show up as:

  • Always needing to be in charge during play
  • Telling friends what they can or cannot do
  • Excluding others who don’t follow her lead
  • Becoming upset when she doesn’t get her way

These behaviors often stem from deeper needs, like insecurity, a desire for control, or difficulty navigating social dynamics.

And here’s the truth: this is a teachable moment.

What You Can Learn by Watching

One of the most powerful tools you have as a parent is observation.

Watch how your daughter interacts with her peers:

  • Does she listen to others’ ideas?
  • Does she compromise?
  • How does she react when things don’t go her way?

These everyday moments are windows into her developing social world, and opportunities for guidance.

What To Do (Without Shame or Blame)

The goal isn’t to label your child…it’s to lead her.

Here’s how:

1. Address the behavior calmly
Instead of reacting with frustration, approach with curiosity.
“Hey, I noticed you were telling your friend what game she had to play. Let’s talk about that.”

2. Build empathy through understanding
Help her connect actions to impact.
“How do you think your friend felt when she didn’t get a turn to choose?”

3. Model healthy relationships
Your daughter is always watching you. Show her:

  • Respectful communication
  • Active listening
  • Compromise in real life

4. Create safe practice opportunities
Role-play different scenarios at home:

  • Taking turns
  • Letting someone else lead
  • Solving disagreements

These small practices build big skills.

Why This Matters More Than Ever

As girls approach adolescence, social dynamics become more complex and often more intense. Without guidance, controlling behaviors can evolve into relational aggression, exclusion, and social cruelty.

But with early connection and intentional teaching, you can help shape a different path; one rooted in empathy, confidence, and healthy relationships.

This Is Just the Beginning…

This post is part of our 7-part series: “Seven Signs Your Child Might Be Bullying Others—and How to Help.”

Next up: another sign to watch for…and more tools to help you guide your daughter with confidence and connection.

Because this isn’t about perfection.
It’s about raising girls who know how to build others up, not tear them down.

Want More Support?

If this resonates with you, you’re not alone, and you don’t have to figure it out on your own.

I’ve created tools, activities, and connection-based strategies to help you build stronger communication with your daughter now—>before the social pressures intensify.

👉 Stay connected with My Crumby World for more guidance, resources, and real-life solutions.

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There are clear signs that your child may be bullying others if you observe their behavior both at home and in peer groups. This insight is shared in a recent article on Parents.com.
 
 
 
Picture of the controlling or dominating others graphic.
Controlling or dominating others is the first sign your child might be bullying others.
Graphic with the text, "Making hurtful Jokes."
Making hurtful jokes is another sign that your child might be a bully.
Graphic with the words "Displaying Entitlement."
Displaying entitlement is another indication of bullying in children.
Graphic with the words "Being secretive" on it.
If your child is--or becomes--secretive, there may be more going on in his/her life.
Graphic with the words "Blaming Others."
Blaming others for everything is an indication also that your child is a bully.
Graphic with the text "Lacking Empathy."
If you notice your child is laughing when someone is sad or hurt, it might be a sign of trouble.
Graphic with the words "Receiving Reports from School."
If you are hearing from your child's teacher about problems at school (teasing or otherwise), you need to take action.

The most important thing to remember is to stay alert and responsive to any changes in your child’s behavior. It’s essential to have a plan in place for when intervention is needed.

If you maintain a strong connection with your child, identifying these behaviors and stepping in when necessary will be easier. We provide tools and resources on this site to help you strengthen your connection with your child. These resources also offer opportunities for your child to role-play various scenarios, enhancing their problem-solving skills with peers and friends.

For additional information on this topic, please visit Parents.com.

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